Casually Explained: Breaking The Ice

3:25 I found my wife on siege because her then boyfriend added me to a discord group of 6 people. She was my first gf so what I'm saying is there is hope for all of us

U can't just expect for someone or something to fall into your lap. Me (who just daydreamed about this): 👁️👄👁️

If you are trying it in germany, then always remember: Nein = noch ein Impuls notwendig.

I get approached sometimes but they usually lose interest

There was a good looking girl trying to hand out flyers to random people on the campus. It ended up being a fierce tactical battle trying to casually avoid her while she kept trying to catch up. I felt like a fighting jet that's about to get intercepted by a rocket

2:34 You haven't held your mum's hand before?

*Papa Franku joined the chat*

This guy is so funny but also serious at the same time its like sam o nella but better somehow. How is this the first time i am watching one of your videos what have i missed.

If you get approached by someone attractive or hot, youre probably getting pranked subject for a BGmost video 🤣🤣

can't hurt my ego if i've never had one in the first place B)

i clicked this video knowing damn well i have already watched it in 2016, the only issue is that I actually need to break the ice : /

The romantic highlight of my life: In ninth grade a girl I liked was telling my friend something and I was there too, so it was _almost_ like she was talking to me as well.

2:54 Lol in my entire life I’ve been asked out by one more gay guy than I have been by straight girls. So one gay guy. And I’m straight so it didn’t do me any good.

Am i a gay or what. Or pure ugly af.

How far I have fallen

I'm so afraid of rejection that I never ask out girls I like, bad thing is those girls who approach me I don't really like. so yeah I've been alone

Back in high school I was extremely good friends with my crush and hung out with her often, yet never let on that I liked her. Well, I was also extremely good friends with her best friend, who dared me to ask out my crush. My ugly, small, non-athletic ass figured it was time to nut up or shut up. Called my crush. Asked her out. She asked why. I panicked and said our mutual friend dared me. She told me in that case it was a no. Called other friend back. Informed her I got the answer I knew was coming. But, after looking back and reevaluating our relationship, specific moments that stick out now but didn't then, and precisely how she asked me why I wanted to date her, I came to the conclusion I'm a dumbass, actually had a chance, and effectively blew it, because I had already convinced myself she would say no. Fast forward about 10 years to 2016. Her and I reconnected. She was doing well. I was doing well. We hit it off. Me, still ugly, not small anymore thanks to the Holy Temple of Iron, still unathletic but a Marine combat Veteran oozing confidence, asked her to go to Bali with me in a few months. She was all about it. Yet again, I panicked that after 10 years she said yes to a trip of that magnitude. Blew my chance again. Lost contact with her. It's 2017. She gets married. All hope is lost. She will forever be my GWB.

2020 whos watching and thinking wow his voice changed

2:54 I’m jealous. I’ve been asked out by more gay guys than girls. So 1:0. :(

As a girl, i can safely say that i agree : i never get to break the ice with guys. (Though that porbably have something to do with my absolute rejection trauma. So i might not be the best example.)

She said yes, we went on 2 dates and then she goes out with my best friend

My rejection late is 100% and I still got no dates except for some sttay cats following me because I smell like ham

I also have Chris Pratt on my lay list

I'm mostly lesbian and the few times i have approached a guy they never liked it. Mind you, i am good looking and often get UNWANTED attention from men. (Like most women i have not been outside by myself at night since i was 15 without getting assaulted, followed or screamed at every single time) But a lot of men don't like when you take leadership or flirt in a dominant way. Which is a turnoff for me, i like when people giggle at my jokes and let me take the lead and most men cannot do that. Even men who claim to be submissive often still are super domineering or fragile about their masculinity.

Kaylee if you're reading this, I love you. AND that's as close as I'll get to that.

Memes in 2014: memes about the boys Memes in 2015: memes about getting rejected by girls Memes in 2019: memes about their girlfriends Memes in 2047: memes about their wife Memes in 2078: memes about how they hate their wife It’s all a cycle people

I feel very attacked right now that's probably not a good sign

I got rejected, and wished I never asked lmao

I can hands down say I have never attempted to pull someone whilst sober.

So it actually worked.....

She said yes to a second date but she's probably just bored

At this one time I got asked out by an attractive girl at my school, I knew she smoked so I rejected her, Just because your desperate doesn't mean you have no priorities!

2:20 James befriends Papa John

i love the way you said the word "cookies" it sounded so cute

Gay

Ive so far had 6 girls have some interest in me. They were all autistic

My rejection rate is well you can decide , 1st when i was thirteen she said i was too charming , 2nd she said i was just a friend , 3rd she said she's broken don't need a relationship for while ,( month after her fathers death i found out she's back agian with the same dude who broke her heart) 4th she said some shit trauma about her sister so no , Well im 22 now still single but living my life to fullest , Had some fucking headaches about being alone while quarantining but im aight

Fck I was 4 years too late

2:53 Cannot relate. Gay guys actually had/have the balls to approach me... xD

naah imma keep eating cookies

well i asked a girl for her instagram once 2years ago. out of nowhere her sister jumped out of a bush and asked how dare I ask her for her instagram and i should leave and stuff.

Picking up school girls in not what a weird person would do: "Hey baby girl, what school you go to?" "Sir this is a nursery"

That rope joke got me lmfaoo

Casually Explain: Talks about breaking the ice Me who never breaks the ice and is never emotionally invested in other people even when they die: Intense staring

I'm not scared of getting rejected, the aftermath is the problem because I'm probably gonna see her a lot after in case if a rejection...

Yeah girls rarely make the first move

"sit tight and wait for the alcohol to give you a personality" holy shit that was so painfully true

2:46 *laughs in always being considered ugly* Let me tell you something: guys only like when pretty girls approach them.

Girl waves at you You wave back Realize she was waving at the person behind you Commit sudoku

i "dared" my best friend to hug her crush and he pushed her away ans were both still embarrassing to this day. Good thing he rejected her though, hes a complete cliche jerk

This is coming from a female stand point so I personally suggest to avoid ANY alcohol but rather just walk up to the person of interest and simply ask them a question in regards to a possible activity that the two might have in common such as Instagram or animals because Trust me this will lead to an actual conversation which is a GOOD thing

It took me 4 years to understand the rope joke, well done man, well done

If your not weird, your doing better then 95% of people Well at least I am in the rarest 5%

3:23, aaahhh.. is too relatable :D

Once I went to a girl in a disco saying her hair was greasy. I thought she'd get the joke, but I didn't sound quite as confident with that half a cunning smile on my face as I imagined it. So she looked rather shocked. Then I realized the joke didn't work, so wanted to save the day by asking if she would dance with me. Her reply was: Not anymore. Right after this I saw her explaining something fiercely to a couple, then saw the other girl and the guy bursting out in laugh. Then I thought at least they got the joke.

Am lesbian. What do?

I like the consicely explicated channel

good video man

Got approached by a cute girl who told me she had a crush on me. Brain froze up and we never talked again. 10/10 experience when remembering it 2 years later probably won’t happen again

The hideous high kitten biologically whine because celsius adversely drum with a last pet. same, spicy kiss

Damn you're telling me you've never been approached by a girl before??

So no one's going to mention the fact that this psycho referred to a jaffa cake as a "cookie"? 1. BISCUITS MATE 2. JAFFA CAKES ARE FUCKING CAKES

It's easy just be a 6'2" Slav and you don't have to worry, everyone is scared of you

I don't get the rope joke

I just got rejected... *THANK YOU* for the *COURAGE* . 🍺

Go out with me?

Every dude watching this video knows that the game is rigged and every man has to contribute 10 times as much to a relationship with a beautiful woman. The best thing to do, if it's still important to you, is focusing on improving every single measurable metric that you can. Get in shape, save money, get educated, build moral character, practice good hygiene and if you become materially and morally / spiritually successful and still don't get women at least you will have those other things. Rather than blame them, make sure you do everything right first and any problems after that are on them.

I asked a girl out once in highschool and that was the first and last. I am now 27.

Let’s take a moment to break the ice

Oh gosh, this is gold

Ight boys here's my score board Compliments: 1 Number of times I've been asked out: 0 Number of times I've asked someone out: 3 Number of times those relationships ended up a train wreck and emotionally scaring me for months: 3 We're doing pretty good boys.

this is pure gold, i wish I had discovered this before

It is good that you have captions also

One time I gave a girl a pencil

I asked a girl out she said no go away i cried

(Bro there is an hiden sextape of natalie dormer in the darknet)

I love the moral of the story at the end...

this dude legit kinda helps me psichologically

Me after watching this video: “Wow, casually explained must get all the ladies”

My crush asked me out once. She cheated on me on the next day.

2:24 Friendship left the chat

What if I make girls approach me by creating funny videos about how I cannot break the ice so girls can understand how funny I can actually be and start texting me? Dunno if it will work but have a feeling it has been done already hm

Girl: actually makes a move Me: its a trick send no reply

Man , your advices are very *helpful*

The stool/rope line would 100% work on me

Fuck. I thought this is exactly about the ice breaking mechanism

Why haven't I asked her out yet My stats- Great guy 100% Self-esteem 0% Oh ya that's why

So, just scrolling down the comments and thinking maybe Casually Explained should run a match making sure, where he can help his 90% make viewership connect with his 10% female viewership

I haven't related with anything so much

I I

I never thought I'd relate to a stick figure so much

Shoot your shot, i didint do that, now im regreting it for like half a year and gonna regret it for the rest of my life

I do not understand this. I'm not hot nor socially liked or found by other people. However I'm often admired and asked out from time to time. Sure, those are girls below my level, but still I get attention despite not being a party guy nor particularly attractive to girls. What is up with you that you fail so much? Hit a gym once in a while.

Honestly, Im not that good looking, so I'm not sure why I've been asked out twice.

i should make a popular youtube channel just to get myself out there like he is doing

I look like shit and i’m often approached by girls. Usually when i‘m having a good time and i show it (in the club or sports with friends). I thought this was normal, all of my relationships and hook ups started with her approaching me. Again i promise that i look like shit :)

You know this scene in Spider Man when Mary Jeanne says hello to her friend behind Peter and he thinks she is saying hello to him so he responds ? Well that happened to me not so long ago with a cute girl and I never wanted so much to just disappear from this cruel world before

just got rejected today

If you get approached by someone hot it's probably a scam.

wait what was the not weird answer